Learning From Our Arguments

The most terrible arguments I have been in are the ones that include my mom because it would mostly start off by our opinions about a topic being totally different from each other which we can become very defending about. These arguments can be so stressful that at the end we would still upset with each other and it'd take a couple of days for us to forgive each other. Though me and my mom have these arguments where we understand each other's opinions and where they come from. At the first she can summarize how I'm feeling about something that's going on in the house. Often from an argument I'll learn that I can't really fight with my mom because not only it's wrong but she's going to know more then me do to experiences in her life. If I need to go to her for advice I can because she's been my age before. She knows how to handle things better then I can.